Whenever Soul Personalities make the decision to reincarnate within the 3D Holographic Reality of this Material Dimension, it means there are objectives and issues that need to be dealt with. Every kind of experience that Soul Personalities learn from during each reincarnation can sometimes be perceived as traumatic and stressful. However, in the Divine Creation of the Universal Creator, every kind of experience has a functional and supernal purpose.
This obviously confirms that for Human Beings there is no such thing as victims or random circumstances in the 3D Holographic Reality of Material Dimension. Instead, there are only unconscious or conscious participants who incarnate with contained Soul Personalities inside their corporeal and biological forms. For the Universal Creator every kind of experiential discernment is a way of remembering itself in everything that has chosen to exist.